These are three of my all-time favorite prayers, and ones that I oft repeat. I invite you to ponder deeply the message of each. I hope they are as transformative for you as they have been for me!
A prayer of St. Francis of Assisi:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace; where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, union; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console; to be understood, as to understand; to be loved, as to love; for it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.
A prayer of Reinhold Niebuhr (the AA Serenity Prayer):
God, Give us the grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed, Courage
to change the things which should be changed,
And the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.
Also stated as follows:
God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change,
courage to change the things we can,
and wisdom to know the difference.
A prayer of Byron Katie (if she had a prayer):
God, spare me from the desire
for love, approval, or appreciation.